100 Things You Need To Know Before Getting Married

Robert Louis Stevenson said, “Marriage is like life – it is a field of battle, not a bed of roses.” This is indeed true because no marriage is free from obstacles.

Marriage is a sacred act of holy matrimony, therefore it is expected that couples stick together till the end of their lives.

However, this does not happen in some cases as some couple end up divorcing.

To avoid this, there are some things couples needs to know before getting married. These things will help them to tolerate each other and live a good life.

So, let’s answer your questions like:

What do I need to know before getting married or what do I need to know about marriage?

To have a smooth and enjoyable marriage, it all begins from the very first day you meet your lover and what you learn before walking down the aisle.

Below we have put together about 100 solid things you need to know before getting married.

No one is perfect; therefore they should accept their partners with the flaws
Each partner has their own shares of mistakes to make, know that and you will have a great marriage
Communication is an important key in a relationship
It is best to respect each other as well as the family in-laws
Having your partner’s back will make the marriage last long
You cannot change your partner completely, so do not expect him/ her to adapt to your lifestyle completely after marriage
There will be fights and arguments; the best is to resolve it
Do not allow a third party to meddle in your affairs; it will lead to nothing but crises
You are not discuss your partner’s secret with other people
Supporting your partner, financially, emotionally and mentally when the need arises will bring out the best in them
It is wrong for you to discuss your partner’s faults with others
Understand your partner, this will allow you to enjoy your marriage
Find his/her love language and use that to communicate
Avoid making your partner’s weakness a topic in front of your friends
Dwelling on mistakes from the past is bad for your marriage
Do not gossip about your partner’s weakness at any time
Your partner is unique in their own way that is why you are marrying them
You have to accept your partner for who they are
If you compare your partner to other people at all times, your marriage might collapse.
You have to trust each other to make the right decisions
Learning to forgive mistakes will help you to overcome hurdles
Do not be afraid to ask for help from your partners
Being your partner’s friend will help you to understand each other more
Play together and have lots of fun together, it keeps things lively
Ask your partner questions
Get to see them when they are angry, to know them really well
Know how to pacify your partner, each person has their moment
Marriage is not a bed of roses; it’s not going to be smooth at all time
Ensure you are accountable
Work on things together; it helps you to know each other more
For a lasting marriage, take responsibility for things you do wrongly as you do for the right ones
Surprise your partner if they love to be surprised, and your marriage will be interesting
Be proud of your partner
You can also support your partner by sharing their happiness and achievements
Agree with your partner to disagree and have fun with your disagreement
Do not expect too much from your partner, more than they should be able to deliver, to avoid disappointment
Learn to appreciate your partner’s effort
Give out compliments too
Always remind your partner of your love
It is important that you listen to your partner and share opinion when required
Be determined to make things work out, but don’t grasp at crumbles
Do not blame your partner at all time, or for little mistakes
Even after marriage, date yourselves
Being intimate and lovey-dovey with you partner, helps to keep things alive too
Do not try to control your partner- physically; mentally or emotionally, let them make their decisions
Maintain your work proportionally so that it will not affect your home
Go on vacations even after getting married, or the honeymoon
Do not be afraid to ask for more- sexually
Be with someone whose sexual need matches yours
Be kinky and sexy for your partner to spice things up
Do not keep partners outside your marriage
Do not do things or engage in acts that will make your partner suspicious of you
Discuss your finances clearly before marriage and even after you are married
Meet your partner half way when they reach out
Prioritize your partner’s needs
Be prepared to give your partner advice when they need it
Even when things are bad, always remember the qualities you love in them
Be kind to your partner and be their shoulder to lean on
Give your partner 100% attention when they require it
Do not give up too quickly on your marriage or your partner
You can get angry and lose your temper, but do not let it cause any lasting damage
Be ready to discuss issues bothering you with your partner
Do not keep any secret from your partner, except it’s a good one
Learn to entertain your partner and make them laugh
But still, let to be together peacefully without talks
Be willing to do anything for your partner, go the extra mile
Do not let the bad times over shadow the good ones
Always be on the lookout for the type of people you allow into your life
Make a rule -not to go to bed angry with your partner
Do not be shy or be afraid to tell your partner exactly what you want
Do not make every little thing into a fight
Have faith in your marriage
Learn to laugh at your mistakes
Do not readily throw away what you will build over the years
Honesty is another key to ensuring your marriage lasts
The simple gestures count
Do not act proud or arrogant towards your partner
Cherish what you have together
Compromise, when there is need to
Do not be afraid to apologize for your mistakes
Avoid name calling, even when you are angry
Do not body shame your partner
Be prepared to give your all when the need arises
Do not make assumption in any situation, ask questions first
Treat your partner, the way you want to be treated
Do not be quick to make judgment as well
Clear disagreements
Do not keep grudges
Ask for advice from friends when you need it, but do not take the advice at all time.
Avoid hitting your partner physically
Value your partner
Do not expect you partner to know your mind or intentions, discuss
Do not act nonchalant towards them
Do not doubt your partner, and do not give them a reason to doubt you.
Although they allow you to make your decision, it is okay to consult them.
Do not be so serious at all time: joke, play and have fun
Your partner should be your best friend
Above all, love your partner and keep falling in love
You are building your own family/home by getting married. Whatever you don’t need should be avoided
Marriage is a gift. Take it and keep it as long as you live.